I’m cheating on my pregnant fiancée with a sexy woman I met at work who I can’t resist – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE I AM having amazing sex with a woman I met through work.

It is only sex and not going anywhere but my fiancée would be heartbroken to know I’m cheating on her. She’s having my baby in June.

I’m 31 and have been with my partner for five years.

She’s 28 and a good-looking, kind-hearted girl — and I guess I take her for granted.

We’ve been together through lockdown and bickered a bit, like you do, but all things considered we’ve got on quite well.

We’re still talking, at least.

I started my crazy affair at the start of the year.

I work in a pub and the woman is a regular there.

She’s 41, a bit of a flirt and a bit of a lush if I’m honest with you, but she’s fun and, I later found out, a wildcat in bed.

It began on the night of her birthday.

She’d had a few drinks in the pub with some mates and came on to me really strong, saying she wanted a present from me.

I walked her back home because she couldn’t walk straight on her own.


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I know it was wrong but I gave her the present she wanted in her bed and it was great for both of us.

My fiancée hasn’t been up for sex much since she got pregnant.

Two weeks later, this woman gave me the wink and it happened again.

It was better, more sober, that time and it made me feel great.

It happened again and again after that.

During the lockdown we’ve had to make do with just the odd sexy session videoing on WhatsApp but it has kept me switched on to her charms.

I don’t know what to do.

I want to be the best father and partner I can but I want to keep seeing that woman for sex.

I want to come clean to my partner and tell her I cheated on her — but then how could I face her again?

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DEIDRE SAYS: You are not thinking straight.

What you want is the kudos and comfort of being a partner and dad, plus the thrill of a woman for sex on the side.

Not only that, but you’d like to get rid of the guilt by offloading all this on to your partner so you can then tell yourself you’ve at least been honest.

You need to grow up and accept that you can’t have it all.

You have to decide what’s important to you and what matters the most.

Just how much do you want to be a good partner and dad?

I hope you decide that you’ll give it whatever it takes.

Don’t kid yourself you can carry on cheating in secret.

You’ve been lucky so far but these secrets get out.

You know what to do.

Tell your lover it’s over, for good.

Have a sexual health check and don’t risk causing pain any more to the people you love.

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