DEAR DEIDRE: THE love of my life broke up with me when his Asian family pushed him into an arranged marriage ten years ago. I’ve heard he’s unhappy but I’m now married to someone else.
My first love and I were together for six years. He’s now 43. I’m a woman of 39. I love my husband, who is 40, but am still crazy about that first love.
I can’t talk to my husband the way I could talk to him. I haven’t seen him for years but could make him happy if he got out of his bad marriage. His cousin told me he still loves me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: The same cultural pressures that led to this man agreeing to an arranged marriage will probably keep him in that union.
In any case, you are remembering first love through rose-tinted spectacles, but you will both have changed.
My e-leaflet Hiding His Feelings? could help you get more open conversations going with your husband.
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