Local barmaid won't stop harassing hubby to leave me | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: MY HUSBAND and I are being hassled by a woman who wants him to leave me for her – and it’s all my fault.

I’m 45. Six years ago I had a stupid affair with a colleague and got pregnant by him. He was 37 at the time. I interviewed him for a job in my department.

My husband had been away on business and I nearly blew the marriage.

He did the maths on dates of conception and knew I had cheated. He was livid but was prepared to bring up this child as his own.

Sadly, I miscarried but not before my husband got drunk and told a barmaid at our local about the fling. She’s about 50 and my husband is 48.

We had some counselling and things are better between us now.

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I don’t know if anything went on between them at the time but she won’t stop harassing him and texts 24/7.

He says she’s just a friend, but is she more than that?

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DEIDRE SAYS: If things are better between you, then he may not be point scoring.

She could well be a friend. But if her constant texting is crossing a line, your husband needs to sort it out.

Find a quiet moment to tell him that you’re not being hypocritical, but now you’ve both moved on and so should she.

My support pack Standing Up For Yourself will help you, then him, to get the message across.

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